Mediation Form MEDIATION POSITION STATEMENT The questions for you to answer, to help me understand your position, are as follows: Name Email 1. As you think about the dispute, what is at the heart of the matter for you? 2. What factors contributed to this dispute? 3. What might you have done differently if you had the opportunity to relive the relevant events? 4. If, by some miracle, you woke up tomorrow and everything was resolved to your satisfaction, what would be different? How would your behavior toward the other party(s) be different and vice versa? 5. What would you like to talk about during this mediation? What do you imagine that the other party(s) would like to talk about? 6. What concerns do you have about what might go wrong in this mediation? What ideas do you have that might prevent this from occurring? 7. How important is it to you to have your point of view understood by the other party(s)? How might you speak in ways that allow you to be heard and understood? When and how have you been able to accomplish that with others in the past? How will you know that the other party(s) is listening with some respect and understanding? 8. What do you want the other party(s) to do or refrain from doing in order for you to be able to really listen? What have you done in the past that's enabled you to listen in difficult situations? 9. What kinds of agreements or ground rules do you suggest for this mediation that will assist you to experience this as a worthwhile investment of your time? 10. If applicable, what role do you want your representative or supporting person to take? 11. What are the advantages and disadvantages to creating an Agreement in mediation? Any other Query? (Optional) Send Download Agreement Form